O.k if I take certain things out of my personals profile in order to get more responses, how do I bring up the

subject later. If I take the part out of my profile where I am looking for commitment and marriage and will not live with someone I am not married to, how do I deal with the situation of when it comes up? Most people nowdays expect to have way before they marry , if they bother too marry at all. I am no saint but have learned the hard way not to sell myself cheap. I will not be used again and have never gotten a man to commit to me by having with him. I can take out the subject inmy profile, but how and when do I tell any perspective man there will be no with out marriage? I don't know that saying I am old fashioned would work because alot of people say they are old fashion (including guys) but they still expect . is important to me, but so is having someone to grow old with and the acceptance of my family and child and not living in an immoral relationship.